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Hi there, I'm not one to talk because I'm actually going through hard times myself and have posted a message seeking advice. But, I'm guilty of having several relationships that became seriously involved extrememly fast. You did too. I'm told then, that's it's actually called "lust" then. But, lust did turn into love and a long monogamous relationship sometimes. I guess you might be like me in the sense you give everything and give yourself wholly into who is in your life at the time. It's that we might give 100% of our heart away too quickly. I felt for you when you told him you didn't trust him with your feelings, and his reply was "I don't blame you..." To me, that's saying he's going to hurt you again. I do believe love can happen fast and slip in through the back door and we can find our soulmates. But, it looks like this is not the case. He probably did fall in love and he probably really felt all these good feelings you felt about love. But, even you said it, you both want different things in life. The kids, for instance. You already have kids, can't change that and I'm sure you don't want to. But, now he doesn't want any in the future and you do. Do you just want him to pacify you and tell you what you want to hear or wouldn't you rather have someone to want the same things you want without being pushed or enticed into the situation? I do feel for you and hope things will come to some resolution and you can get honest answers you need to hear. It's good he's getting counseling, but there are good counselors and bad counselors out there for depression. Do you think it's too early or too late to try joint counseling and possibly go with him to a session somewhere down the line? Maybe that could help to get to the bottom of his committment-phobia. You don't want to just be a person he has fun only (sex) without some sort of committment. You know, I'm sure you don't want to be just a booty-call kind of thing. If he's worth it, and only you'd know. Try to look into why he wants to just be so committment free. Hope this helps.